MY POINT OF INFLECTION

You can be living years and years without nothing around you changes substantially, simply the normal thing in the life on any person. But, when you hardly ever realize, it appears your “point of inflection” in which your life leaves the curve. It can be any day, any hour or even any “insignificant minute” from which, you realize that your life has changed in that minute which had not changed in years.
I do not know very clearly if this minute is good or bad, positive or negative, determining or banal..... But what YES I KNOW is that IT IS “revolutionary”.
Three days ago I listened to some people speaking about the changes that, according to some researches, women experienced in different stages of our life. I do not know if men and women we are equal. I think that both of us have intelligence and will; we are able to do the same things. But a third element exists that makes us (women) very different from men: the affectivity: An ample and full universe of emotions and intuitions.
The woman does not have feelings different from which any man can have, but she feels them more intensely and with an ample variety of nuances. Women we do not feel more, simply, we feel in a different way. This difference of nuance appears in women like weakness or strength; nevertheless men see it as an opportunity or a threat. Everything will depend on the way each one faces up to it.
When a woman begins to know herself, she is not scared about what she is feeling, being able to distinguish between "to feel" and "to allow". It allows me to love with a greater intensity and I try to unify my personality in "what I do" and "what I think". Also it is strength because I try to develop my sixth sense: the intuition. It has been spoken much about the feminine intuition. My intuition as woman is simply the periscope of my heart, a thoughtful heart towards the others. My “periscope” sees farther, it discovers what it is not touched although it is felt.
But my affectivity also takes me to have weakness. My weakness is not to know the cause of my feelings, to confuse with others and to let me be surrounded by them, until the point of not understanding myself nor being understood.
The life is a continuous fight. This different affectivity between genders can become opportunity or danger, strength or weakness. But the most intelligent thing by both genders would be to take advantage of it, turning it a bridge for a mutual encounter and not like a wall that could isolate us. We should learn the best things that other ones have. As a woman, I should learn not to give importance to which does not have it and to value the essential thing in the delivery of the others towards me. For men, my advice is: learn to take care of the details, not by themselves, but because they know they are important for us.