NEW LIFE/WORK STAGE IN MY LIFE

WHAT WOULD YOU PREFER IF YOU HAD WORKED IN MY OFFICE?WOULD YOU HAVE DONE THE SAME AS I HAVE?I cannot compare myself with a delinquent. I am an honest woman and, with my hard daily effort, I have fed my family and collaborate in the growth of my country For that reason, there are great differences between a prison cell and the office from which I have escaped. Maybe some of you, my dearest readers, can understand my powerful reasons to have broken with my past work and start a new (and unknown) labour life: In the prison, the cell has a small window to the outside and natural ventilation; at the office, the CUBICLES do not have windows to the outside and the ventilation does not exist.In the prison, nobody bothers you because you are smoking; at the office, if someone is smoking, he/she is declared as a social maladjusted.In the prison, the punishment is shorted if you behave in a good way; at the office, if I behave well, I am awarded with more work.In the prison, they allow your family and friends to visit you; at the office, not even I can speak with them by telephone.In the prison, they can practice exercise every day, they can walk and practice sports; at the office I can’t raise my head from writing-desk, my back is a knot.In the prison, jail keepers generally are called “SADIST”; at the office there are also, but called “GENERAL MANAGERS”. WONDERFUL! , Ready to live one more day on glorious activity in the office. And remember: in few minutes and while you are under a battery of papers, in the jail suffered prisioners will begin to play a soccer match.

DID YOU KNOW????

Did you know that jealousy towards a person happen when you really love him/her?
Did you know that people, who seem to be very strong, are the weakest?
Did you know that people who always defend the others are those who need more to be defended?
Did you know that the three most difficult words to be said are: “I LOVE YOU”, “SORRY” and “HELP ME”?
Did you know that who need you more, are those who do not say it?
Did you know that you can make your dreams true, like love, money, health, if you request them with faith, and that if really you knew it, you wouldn’t be astonishing at which you can do with them?

But don’t believe in everything I am telling you, until you don’t verify it on your own; if you know someone who needs anything I have already said and you can help him/her, just give your help.

DID YOU KNOW THAT YOU ALWAYS CAN COUNT ON ME…???? AT ANY MOMENT, TIME AND PLACE YOU NEED ME, I WILL BE WITH YOU .!!!
“Someday we, crazy people, will move to the world… or we are already moving it” The ball is in your hands now.

If we only had twenty-four hours of existence, all phone lines, chats and electronic mails would be saturated of people who would call somebody just to say to them:
“I AM SORRY FOR HAVING MADE YOU FEEL BAD”, “FORGIVE ME”, “I LOVE YOU”, “I NEED YOU”, “TAKE CARE” and maybe“I HAVE ALWAYS LOVED YOU BUT I NEVER TOLD YOU IT”

A MIDDLE-AGED WOMAN

For all my good friends who are very, very far from me (in presence) and who I can not meet as much as I’d wish. This is my only way to communicate all my feelings and my inner changes that are helping me in all those moments I would need to have some of you by my side. I have met some of you recently,,,,,but I have not been so lucky with other ones. Two years ago, something happened in my life, something very surprising, amazing and very sudden, especially for a person like me, who thought she could control everything………..but it made me reflect about many aspects in my life. Thanks to it, I started to write again. In this way, I have been able to fill my blogs with lines full of sincere feelings which, maybe I couldn’t have done two years ago. All these thoughts have helped me to realize WHO I am……….: A MIDDLE-AGED WOMAN

A middle-aged woman knows what she really wants… she knows herself just enough to know where… when… how and with who she wants to do something… without mattering what people will say and… still often over her partner’s opinion……. This is Sincerity.
A middle-aged woman is never involved in a scandal… She always keeps her composure with firmness and decision… but without vacillating a moment to put in its site person who betrays her……. This is Dignity
A middle-aged woman knows her Attributes and does not feel fear nor is jealousy to recognize those in other women… because she knows that every one has its everyone……. This is Fairness
A middle-aged woman does not need that her partner gives her a calendar with activities so that she knows where she is and what she is doing… because she feels Mistress and Owner of the situation……. This is Confidence.
A middle-aged woman can accept the differences with her defeats and without manipulating the situation……. This is Humility
A middle-aged woman doesn’t keep a support word or… an approval gesture… because she knows the value of feeling Appreciated……. This is Generosity
A middle-aged woman does not fear to tell the Truth in a clear and calm way … without masking her feelings… but without hurting the other……. This it is Honesty
A middle-aged woman has learned to interpret life… she knows her place and she assumes it with property… because she knows her role in Life… and… she simply loves and she allows to be loved……. This is Wisdom

TIME TO THINK

After having spent weeks full of work and short free time, now I have realized I missed a vital thing in my existence: to reflect. Every time I have fewer moments in which I can stop in front of a white sheet to let my mind fly, to leave fingers type in my computer sending my inner feelings. Perhaps it is because every time it is more difficult to find the exact word that defines what I really feel… I do not know. But I must always have time to reflect. I must find time to throw words that all of you, my dear friends, read. Since, if our thoughts are cleared out, what do we became in? If we are not able to analyze the reality existing around us, what will we be? We will become in robots who walk in life letting fine leaf of time consumes us. We are human beings without a way to be crossed, but taking steps incessantly; without a place to be reached, but advancing. Why do we run if the goal does not exist? Why do we fight if we have no enemy? Why do we love if nobody answers our love?
Often I have been in a corridor, walking and having wanted to stop and I have not been able to. And thinking that I am not the only one who is moving, but it is the corridor which advances towards me. To feel the well-greased machinery called “destiny” has begun to walk and nobody can stop it. I am condemned to continue rolling like little stones that the river drags inexorably towards the sea. But, in all this pessimism and disappointment, there is even a light that comes with me in the way and that will never leave me: my reflections and inner thoughts.
To my thoughts: never leave me. Since, in this forced direction, you are the unique thing that I have.

CLOSING DOORS

It is always precise to know when a stage is finished in your life. If you insist on remaining in it, beyond the necessary time, you lose the joy and the sense of the rest of them. The important thing is to be able to let go life moments that are closed.
You can spend long time of your present asking your “Whys” and trying to understand why so-and-such fact happened
We cannot be in the present longing for the past. Not even wondering why. What happened, happened. We can not be eternal children, late adolescent, nor have bonds with who does not want to be tied to us.
In life nobody plays with marked cards and it is necessary to learn to lose and to win. It is necessary to live only what we have in the present. The past already passed by. If you walk in your life leaving opened doors, just in case, you will never be able to live your today with satisfaction. Remember that nothing or nobody is indispensable. Neither a person, nor a place, nor a work, nothing is vital to live. Your life is ahead, never back. Life is a set of circles. You must know when to close one and open a new one. I am learning….and you?

LET'S THINK---SYLLOGISMS

1. - TIME IS MONEY
Nowadays, workers do not have time for anything
Now, lazy people… have all time in the world
Time is money
Then, lazy people have more money than workers.
Conclusion: To be rich… it is not necessary to work!
2. – ALCOHOL AND HEAVEN
When we drink alcohol in excess, we get drunk
When we are drunk, we sleep.
When we are sleeping, we do not commit sins.
When we do not commit sins… we go to Heaven.
Conclusion: In order to go to Heaven, it is necessary to be Drunk!
3. - + CHEESE?
Imagine a piece of Swiss cheese, those ones full of holes. The more cheese, the more holes.
Each hole occupies the place in which there would be cheese.
So, the more holes, the less cheese. The more cheese, more holes and the more holes the less cheese
Conclusion: The more cheese… the less cheese.
4.-IF YOU GET UP EARLY…..GOD HELPS YOU.
Who gets up early, sleeps in the evening…
Who sleeps in the evening, doesn’t sleep at night...
Who doesn’t sleep at night, goes on a binge!!!
Conclusion: God helps who go on a binge!!!
5.-ALCOHOL AND INTELLIGENCE
To drink alcohol kills neurons.
The neurons that die are the weakest ones.
If weakest neurons die, the most intelligent and strongest ones are left.
Conclusion: the more alcohol I drink the more intelligent I become

My first 40 years

Last 15th January, my first 40 years arrived. It is a magical number that not everybody likes to be. My opinion is that the most important thing is to be years, does not matter how many….
Time spending is inevitable; to stop it is an impossible mission.
Years go and years come for everybody, and although we know that with them the experience and the maturity arrive, they also bring the aging.
From this moment, we need to reconsider our lives. We cannot live as if we were 20 or 30. The reality is another one. We need a change. For teenagers, changes must be given to reach the maturity, but when arriving at the fourth decade, the changes will deal with way of thinking, how we see life and how we see ourselves.
The best thing is to let the world flows and follows its course, without trying to control the uncontrollable thing.
What am I going to do from 16th January 2007?

• I will accept myself as I am because the acceptance is not resignation, but to take control the situation. To think about what I can do with what I have got.
• I will review my life. I will wonder: what do I want to keep up? What don’t I need anymore? And what should I add? It is important that I divest all those things I don’t use.
• I will dare to do what I ever stopped doing. I will question my individuality, what do I want to do?
• Today it is the right moment; I have time for me, because I already fulfilled many of my expectations (and others’ ones).
• I am going to change my wishes. I will forget about “I WOULD HAVE” and I will choose “I WANT TO”. In this way, I will do all possible things to get it. I will change “I HAVE TO DO” by “I DECIDE TO DO”.
• I will forget what the others say. I will close well my ears to which others say. I will live my life, not the others’ ones. Since, if I don’t live my life, nobody will do it by me.

From this blog, I want to thank for all those FRIENDS who remembered this so important day for me. From nearest here in Zaragoza, Soria, Barcelona, Madrid, etc….and all those who had a thought for a friend who, still being so far in distance (Rumania, France, Great Britain, India, Turkey, China, Egypt, Poland) made me feel next in feeling .......

For all of you: THANK YOU DEAR FRIENDS